OCTOBER 1, 1993
GAY PEOPLE'S CHRONICLE SECTION B
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PERSONALS
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Gay Men
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Canton, GWM, 24, 6'1", 165#, br/br. Slender, healthy, honest, shy, friends say attractive, unique. Out to friends, family, don't advertise. You: 21-30, want to share fun times. No head games! Send photo.
1869
Whatever happened to romance? KSU graduate student seeking monogamous, long term relationship. If you are honest, happy with yourself, and able to express your feelings, let me give you my heart, forever. Prefer Kent/Akron area. 1873
Two GWM's 20/23 both br/bl 140, 5'10 seeks GWM 18-23 slender for fun laughs good time. Call or write for more info. Full photo and number gets ours. Kent area, students welcome.
1885
26, attractive, very masculine GBM who loves sports, being active, and having a good time. Seek dark skin GBM (18-26) with same energy. Send photo, phone#, let's hang out. Akron area only! 1886
Youthful, successful, tall, thin, 50 year old GWM looking for masculine GWM. I have many interests, including dogs, gardening, traveling, collecting, movies, and country music. I would prefer Arnold Schwarzenegger, but he is already taken, so I am not seeking a specific age, type, etc., although I expect the caller to be healthy and reasonably good looking and intelligent. Yo hablo espanol.
1888
GWM, 37,5'6", 135 lbs., non-smoker, athletic, mostly straight interests, both physically and emotionally attracted to slim, clean-shaven men 27-40 with intelligence and a variety of interests. Seek friends and lover. Interests include racquet sports, cooking, outdoors, skiing, sports, movies, travelling and more. 1892
Me, Akron professional GBM, 22, 6'2", 137#, slim build, large sexual appetite. You, GM, 21-30, professional, nice build, top/bottom or both, who knows what he wants, object, lasting monogamous relationship. Race not important. Photos, phone# appreciated. 1033
When I close my eyes I dream of already here you with me. GWM, 25, 5'10", 210 lbs., blonde/grn. You, GWM, 21-30, muscular, romantic, ready for a serious relationship. 1035
Long romantic drives, soft music, come share these, and more, with me. Me, GWM, 6', 140lbs, brn/brn, 20 yrs. You, GWM, 20-25, muscular, romantic ready to share. Write soon.
1036
GWM student 29, 6', 360# bl/br, looking for special someone. I like music, theater, dancing, camping, cuddling, and passionate kisses. I am seeking a muscular man with a mind as strong as his body. Short men a plus. 1042
Toledo GWM 29, masculine, very good looking with plenty of offers refuses those one time only encounters. I want to explore you completely, be friends and find that one forever. Please no one overweight. Write it's worth your time 1722
GBM, 26 slim, 5'9 attractive college student, afrocentric, feminine not flamboyant, out of the closet. Seeks GBM only, 26-36 masculine, athletic build, top, afrocentric. Friendship, possible relationship. Send photo will do the same. Druggies, fems, sellouts: Not! 1729
GWM, HIV+, healthy medium build 33 yrs seeks HIV+ 25-35 healthy, muscular, college look, attractive who wants a long term loving-fun life together. For support for each other, sincere, honest, compassionate relationship, my heart is very big-call or write with photo, Cedar Point area. 1854
Toledo GWM, 46, 5'8", 145, HIV negative, nonsmoker, masculine, into running and other fitness activities, seeks somebody similar in NW Ohio area for friendship, possible monogamous sex. 1893
Columbus & Central Ohio
Young-looking, professional, Americanized GAM, 28, 5'7", 120 lbs. Enjoy outdoors, quiet times, volunteer work and a healthy lifestyle. Seeking boyish, nonsmoking, GWM/GAM, 21-30, (baseball caps a plus) with compatible interest. No drugs, bears or beards please. 1065
GWM, 33, 5'8", stocky 350#, br/gr, N/S, bearded bottom bear seeking 6'plus, 300#+, barrel-chested gentle top bear for friend and lover. Me over-educated, goal-oriented, humorous, simple tastes. You, honest, good conversationalist, conservative, commonsense. 1076
GWM, 36, 6'2", 200#, attractive, balding, dark hair/ eyes, stocky, hairy Italian. Enjoy spiritual, astrology, movies, dining, theatre, music, romance, cuddling with innate sense of humor. ISO soulmate/friend/ lover to share my zest for life and passion. Respond. 1079
Flat tops, crew cuts, Marine high-and-tights. GWM into taking your hair from long/short to shorter. I'm 39, 152 lbs., fit, work out and really into giving haircuts-long or short. Cincy area but will travel. Give me a call. Also interested in names of guys who would like to receive a haircutting newsletter every month including photos and articles.
DR. RUBY
Hello kids! You may have been wondering about the question that was in my ad in the Sept. 17 Chronicle. The question was:
Dear Dr. Ruby,
I met a guy this weekend who said he's into B & D. What is B & D?
Without a Clue
Now I bet you kids are wondering what B & D stands for. Maybe he's into Bowling and Diving. Or Breakfast and Dinner, but not lunch! Or even Bathing and Dressing. But if you guessed any of these, you're wrong. B & D stands for Bondage and Discipline, which I need to define more fully.
Bondage is the act of restraining someone, or being restrained, with ropes, chains, cuffs, belts, etc. in order to limit movement. Discipline may be verbal or physical ways which two people use to let one be totally in charge, or be the dominant.
Unfortunately this topic is too broad to fully explain here, but I, as your sexual analyst, can assure you it is usually done with good communication, compassion and trust. This can be another option for safer sex when done with this understanding.
Dear Dr. Ruby,
1082
I'm a black gay man and I like men who "just mess around." Why is it that after sex they either pretend that it never happened or they show no emotion?
Dear "I Need A Man,"
I Need A Man
The men that you are referring to who mess around in the black community are called trade. Sometimes it's hard for them to accept the possibility of being bisexual. If you are totally attracted to these types of men, you have two choices:
1. Accept the fact that with these type of men, most of the time it's just a "sex thang" with no emotion, or,
2. Consider finding that emotion in another gay man like yourself who would understand these emotions. Remember that sex is something that can be done with our hearts, bodies and minds. No matter what your choice, always remember the simple rule: No Glove, No Love.
If you have ideas, thoughts, expressions or just general questions please write me. Remember, kids, that I am here to help you in confidence.
Send your questions about sex, safer sex, and matters of the heart to Dr. Ruby, care of the Health Issues Taskforce, 2250 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, 44115.
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WM, 31, 5'11", 155#, athletic blue-green eyes, glasses, attractive, straight appearance, enjoy cars, outdoors, tennis, dining out, wants to meet someone similar in appearance, slim build, healthy, to share in friendship, romance, and good times. Let's get together! 1080
Columbus GWM, 39, 5'9", 165 lbs., br/br, professional, non-smoker, lite-drinker. Enjoys nature, hiking, biking, aerobics, camping, theater and movies. Seeks similar for possible relationship, dark hair, beard/hairy chest a plus. 1598
Dayton area GWM, 29, 6'3", 195#, red/bl. Light drinker, smoker, tired of one-night stands. I'm new to the leather scene, and a bottom. I'm eager to please and willing to try new things.
1730
Soulfully seeking confident, open-hearted, relaxed, self-aware, emotionally available, mature, nature-loving, life-affirming. Spiritually progressive M to share journey with 46, romantic, loyal, open-minded, passionate, sensitive, playful, honest, caring, intuitive GWM. 1023
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Columbus-HIV POS ISO 18-mid twenties with smooth body. I'm PWM hairy chest, mustache, 6'0, 180 lbs, versatile. Enjoy boating activities and life. Will travel Ohio. 1038
Dayton GWM, 33, 5'10", 150, br/br, masculine, clean-cut, seeks to meet corporal punishment disciplinarian in Central or Southern Ohio. Letter with phone will get mine. 1043
Romantic GWPM, 45, 6', 185 lbs. dark hair, fit, safe, searching for sincere, funloving GM, any race, 25-40, slim, non-smoker for relationship. I'm into antiques. music, art, movies, dining out. Let's see what develops. Columbus area. 1634
GAM, 23, 5'7", 140 masculine build 39-28-36, reserved yet adventurous, variety of interests, cute college senior seeks college professional GM around my age into health, fitness, sports, classical music, willing to try different things, photo appreciated with letter. 1636
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